KEEPING HEART FOR YOUR MARRIAGE
Do you know how to identify parasites in your marriage?
Are you even WATCHING out for parasites?
A parasite is a follower who hangs around a host in hope of gain or advantage.
The Apostle Paul tells us to have on the BREASTPLATE of righteousness for a crucial reason.
“Stand therefore…having on the breastplate of righteousness” Eph.6:14
A breastplate covers the heart and vital organs and keeps them from harm or being destroyed.
In our spiritual ARSENAL, we have the breastplate of righteousness and all we have to do is put it on.
1Thess.5:8 “…having put on a breastplate of faith and love…”
God’s character is the definition and source of all righteousness.
Satan’s attacks come against your marriage with crafty ACCUSATIONS that undermine what God is doing in your marriage.
Remember that you are wearing the breastplate of righteousness when the enemy comes around to destroy.
Righteousness is anything that conforms to a standard and our standard is the WORD of God.
An area the enemy thrusts at marriages is unrighteousness in our finances.
Finances are at the top four reasons that cause the most DIVORCES.
The enemy tries to get you to hide money from your spouse.
He will cause you to have a spending frenzy so you will try to SPEND as much money as you can before your spouse does.
Being righteous in your finances means that you surrender to the Holy Spirit who fills and controls you.
Warfare starts in the battlefield of your MIND.
Be sure that you pay tithes and offerings so that you will not be robbing God and closing the windows of heaven.
Gods Word says that when we give, he opens up HEAVEN to us.
Do you and your spouse argue about money?
Arguing over finances NEVER solves marital problems.
If the finances cannot be resolved, you can either hire a financial advisor or a Christian marital counselor who can teach you some communication skills.
Money is to be a tool to bring us closer to God as we commit our finances to Him.
Are you FULL of parasites?
“My flock has become prey and food for every wild animal.” How so? For “they lack a shepherd.” (Eze.34:8)
Are parasites hanging on you trying to take advantage of your situation?
Parasites promise PLEASURE but grow and consume more of your thoughts and time.
Your loyalty to your spouse and your time are stolen away.
Pay attention to your marriage and GUARD it!
“Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.” Prov.4:23 NIV
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