SECRETS FOR AN OVERLOADED SPOUSE
Do you remain firm in your love for your spouse when faced with hard circumstances?
1Cor.13:7 “…Love …endures all things…”
The word “endures” in the Greek is “hupomeno” which means to stay under or remain.
In secular Greek, “hupomeno” was a military term used to refer to an army who is holding a position at all costs.
This would be a person who is under a heavy load but refuses to surrender to defeat.
He will stay put and refuse to leave because he know that he is where he is suppose to be.
Do you endure in times of loneliness or loss?
If you are filled with the love of God and strengthened by the Holy Spirit, you can endure pain and suffering.
The early Christians and the apostles were able to endure suffering and torture, due to agape (love)for God.
Agape never quits or throws in the towel.
Are you patient and loving with your spouse with no desire to reject or retaliate?
Do you bear up under circumstances that seem impossible?
Example: The formica japonica ants can lift and carry five times their weight. God created them to endure hardness.
We were not made to endure heaviness with out the infilling of Gods Holy Spirit.
When your spouse is not successful at their attempts are you still cheerful and still standing?
We can never talk ourselves into agape (love)because we have no power within us.
Be honest with God and say, “I don’t love my spouse right now!! I’m angry and have bad thoughts.”
You need to ask Jesus to fill you with His high-level love.
Here is an assignment for you to reach that higher-level.
- Write down the 11 qualities of love in 1Cor.13.
As you think of each one, how are you measuring up?
Which ones are you strong in?
Which ones are you weak in?
Which ones do you need in your life right now?
- Memorize 1Corinthians 13.
There is nothing more important in your life than letting God perfect His love in you.
Say, “I’m committed to be here in my marriage and to stay here and to work out our marriage. I am not quitting no matter what the cost or time is to me.”
Don’t throw in the towel!
Jesus didn’t carry a towel with Him to Calvary.
Don’t carry one around in your marriage.
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