SATURDAY Q & A

SATURDAY Q & A  

Question #1:  What does it take to become the romantic man of my wife’s dreams?

Answer #1:  

The key is learning to become fluent in her romantic love language.

*A romantic man engages his wife in a living and growing relationship without losing sight that physical intimacy is an important part of that relationship.

*A romantic man commits to learning nonsexual ways to love his lover while nurturing in her the freedom to be sexually responsive.

*A romantic man can kiss, hug, touch, and cuddle without a sexual agenda, while helping his wife embrace the joy of sex at the right time.

*A romantic man connects to his wife’s world, supports, listens, and shares his heart, while being confidently aware that sexual intimacy is vital to the survival of his marriage.

*A romantic man will do all of these things even when his spouse is sexually unresponsive, knowing that in due time he will reap what he sows.

     You can learn to speak your wife’s language of romantic love and still be fully a man, with all the sexual desire God put there. Remember, there is no shame, no condemnation, and no apology for being a real man.

NOTE:  This article was taken from the book Family Life and Marriage Bible by Dennis and Barbara Rainey.

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