7 Apr



We have reached over 350,000 views.

The blog has been viewed in every continent in the world!

It has been to just about every country including terrorist nations.

I can’t even express the joy that is in my heart today!

Today I want to do something special!

Can you take a minute and hit the comment button.

I would like to hear from you concerning your spouse.  I would like for you to thank God for your spouse and write whatever is on your heart.

I want to save these as momentos and put them in a book for my office.

Maybe I’ll wallpaper my office with them??  lol!!  You never know!

G O D   G E T S   T H E   G L O R Y !!!

If this is your first time on this blog, welcome aboard and feel free to go through the RECENT POSTS section and look at the blogs up to this point.

If you are a regular on this blog, I can’t thank you enough for partnering with us.  Please leave a testimony in the COMMENT section.  Hit the COMMENT button.

I love you all and keep the Holy Spirit as the “guiding light” in your marriage!!!

NOTE  Daily there is a new post to help your marriage be a success.


  1. Tyrone L Cornelious April 7, 2020 at 5:00 am #

    Hello guys.. I’ve read this blog for 2 years , not consistently but especially in times that my spouse and i have been struggling.. Thank God for you and the people who work for you.. With this encouraging word on how a marriage is suppose to be, you have gave me the strength to push forward and for me to love my beautiful bride for what she is and also how God really want her to become.. we all deal with things differently in life and relationships, but with your blog i understand the true meaning what a marriage is suppose to look like in God’s eyes .. Thank you Ms. Nancy!

    • Nancy April 8, 2020 at 5:52 pm #

      Hi Tyrone! Thank you for your comment! I am so glad you are putting it to practice. We have an enemy whose job is to destroy our marriage. Let the Holy Spirit guide you into truth. Enjoy the love of your life daily!

  2. DawnD Gubrud April 7, 2020 at 7:45 am #

    I enjoy reading your blog on the mornings and sometimes I will read them to my husband. I am so thankful to God for my wonderful husband who continues to diligently learn and grow in the Lord. We celebrated our 35th wedding anniversary yesterday. With the quarantine in place for CoVID-19, we had to cancel our plans for travel, but we had a sweet afternoon and evening together. Blessings to you!

    • Nancy April 8, 2020 at 5:56 pm #

      Hi Dawn!
      Congratulations! You have shown unselfish love for all those years. Keep up the great work. Great is your reward in heaven!

  3. Susie April 8, 2020 at 5:36 am #

    I’ve been reading this blog for several years now. Though I don’t have a husband, I find it very helpful to help me improve relationships. Who knows, maybe someday I will gave a husband. I also like to share blogs with family and friends.

    • Nancy April 8, 2020 at 7:46 am #

      Hi Susie! Thanks for your comment! Each blog applies for anyone! God will bless you for your caring heart!

  4. Rebecca Carpintero April 8, 2020 at 9:50 pm #

    Hi Sister Nancy , I am blessed to have my husband , He encourages me as I see his walk in the Lord , He is a wonderful father and grandfather , and I am truly blessed to have him in my life . Thankyou for your encouragement and Godly wisdom you give us , as we continue to learn and grow stronger in the Lord in our marriage .Thankyou for investing in us and others , Blessings!

  5. Adriana G Herroz April 9, 2020 at 11:06 pm #

    First in foremost, I’d love to Thank God for my amazing, handsome, patient, and hard working husband. We are newly married, November 1st 2019. It was a day to remember on a cliff in Monterey Bay right by the beautiful ocean . During these last few months of being married I’ve learned I have many flaws to address. I am grateful for them because it is a process of being refined as a wife and for the service of others. God is in the midst and am thankful for His mercy and faithfulness. Thank you Jesus for a man of my dreams. Sounds cheesy but I couldnt phrase it in any other way.


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