YOUR SPOUSE NEEDS RESPECT
When husbands are asked what his important needs are, respect is the number one answer.
They also give answers like food, remote control and sex.
This gives the wife the opportunity every day to meet these needs, but DO WE?
The first is RESPECT
In Eph.5:33, it is the marriage treatise and one of the best scriptures on marriage.
Eph.5:33 “…let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”
In the Greek, the word is pronounced fob-eh’-o. It means to be in awe, reverence or to fear.
The important thing about this verse is that the wife and husband have to do it UNCONDITIONALLY.
No matter what the other partner does, they have to commit themselves to God by doing their part.
It can only work if it is unconditional.
This is long-term so we need to realize it is a marriage marathon.
When your husband isn’t respected, he will never be convinced that you love him.
He feels unloved !!
If he feels disrespected, he will go to other avenues to find respect.
He may become very quiet, may be bury himself in his work, or find reasons to not come home.
There will no longer be any reason to build a relationship.
IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT??
I DON’T THINK SO!
Here are some suggestions:
1. SMILE at him.
2. SAY HELLO when he comes home.
3. Don’t start COMPLAINING about things.
4. Let him sit on his favorite chair and go into his NOTHING BOX.
5. Don’t give him a LOOK when he has said or done something wrong.
6. Don’t DISRESPECT his family. He loves them.
7. Don’t YELL at him.
8. Let him SPEND money. He’s not in kindergarten and he worked for it.
9. Don’t BELITTLE him for the things he enjoys.
10. Don’t criticize him.
11. Did I leave anything out?
R E S P E C T H I M !! God gave you to him for support.
NOTE: Daily there is a new post to make your marriage a success.
LOVE YOUR SPOUSE 
This is one of those post that caused me to react with a grunt no words. Because it is not always easy to respect. The next thought is but look at what he does. Then the spirit says work on what i give you and leave him to me. So when its all said n done I say Amen, yes Lord.
Hi Martha! Thanks for your comment. The part that counts is the conclusion to do what God wants you to do. And you have drawn the right conclusion. Keep up the good work!