LOVE YOUR HUSBAND
I am sure that if we did a survey and asked wives if they loved their husbands, most would say, “Of Course!”
In Titus, it is one of the commands that all women learn to “love their husbands.”
These verses are here for a reason, and I am going to assume it is because we have a lot to be taught.
Have you ever thought about how much you really love your husband and does your affection show?
Do you share dreams?
Do you still hold hands?
Can you focus on the good and forget the bad things that have happened?
When things go wrong do you scream and pout?
Your husband is human!
Do you really love the man that God has given you?
Then that means that your husband needs “unconditional acceptance” from you.
Accept him for who and what he is with all his imperfections.
The love that God has for Jesus is the model for love in our marriage relationship.
If you serve your spouse out of duty, with no affection, it would be very offensive to him.
Sex is one of a man’s most important NEED!!
I will say that again; Sex is your husbands most important NEED from you.
This is the most important thing on learning to “love your husband.”
Sex may be last on your list, but as a wife, you are to look at every thing through his perspective. This insight of his perspective will help you with decision making.
Do you resist intimacy?
Do you act uninterested to his sexual gestures?
Your husband is not dumb, he knows when he is being brushed off by you.
He also has feelings and has to deal with rejection when it comes to sex.
Rejection in a man causes an array of emotions since this is such an important part of his life.
You have just torn him at the very center of his being, so now his response will be isolation.
Forget the mopping, the meal, the kids or anything else. This guy needs a queen who is going to make him feel like a king.
He married you cause he thought you qualified.
Was he right or wrong?
Everyone loves the end of Cinderella but if you remember, it has a very romantic ending.
Well the shoe fit, that is why he married you.
But what happened to the romance??
He is still waiting.
Cherish him the way God planned it to be, “For better or worse.”
You will be thrilled at what it will do for your marriage!!
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LOVE YOUR SPOUSE 
hello, well this seems to be hard we have two young kids and by the time they go to sleep most of the time with us we r asleep. Any suggestions?
Hi Me! I have a lot of suggestions that other couples try. First, you will have to train yourself to get your kids to bed much earlier. Some couples said their kids are in bed by 7:30pm . That seems pretty early but it works for them. The problem is that it takes a major toll on the marriage. The best thing would be to get the kids trained to sleep in their own bed. If your husband doesn’t agree to this, you two can hide out in the kids bed after they have fallen asleep. Your husband may not be complaining, but he is just as much a man as the dude next door. Don’t deprive him a day longer! It could be very dangerous to your marriage.
Yes, they need a queen and it’s so wonderful that its US that they need!!!!
Since I have been attending the marriage make-over classes and reading your blog on a daily basis, there is one thing for sure that I have learned and know that if we DO NOT take care of our husbands, someone else will. I lost my husband once and I refuse to allow that to happen again. I used to take for granted that he would always be my husband , that he would always be there and thats not so. Sister Nancy, God Bless you for giving us hope in our marriages ,for giving us love and (tough love when we need it.) The day that my family and I walked into New Harvest is the day that our lives changed completely, How blessed we are to have a family like yours. Again God bless you and your family and may he continue to use you in the way that he has.
Love You !!!!
HI CHRISTINA! I love your comment. It is so important that these young wives hear testimonies like yours so they don’t have to suffer consequences. Thank God for His grace that he has reunited your family. Unfortunately, many families end up with roots of bitterness and it is these small children who get destroyed for life. Thanks once again for your words of wisdom. Love you