IS YOUR MARRIAGE A CHAOTIC LIFESTYLE?

7 Sep

 IS YOUR MARRIAGE A CHAOTIC LIFESTYLE?

God hardwired us to reign from the beginning of creation.

But instead of being KIND stewards, we start to show dominion over people.

Many times you may find yourself spending time trying to dominate your spouse or avoid being dominated by your spouse.

When you pray, “…Your kingdom come…”  (Matt.6:10)  you are asking God to let his kingdom take priority over yours.

There will now be such a struggle going on inside of you.

You are now in a FIGHT with two kingdoms.

Just think about how you have spent your whole life expanding your own kingdom.

You have worked at INCREASING your income, your education, your influence.

Anything which you have invested your time, energy and money in, you will grow very protective of.

Our human nature is to react with HOSTILITY when people challenge our kingdom.

The moment we ask for Gods kingdom to come, we threaten our own kingdom.

Any castle with two kings in it is in for a big CONFLICT.

There can not be two kingdoms, one of them has to leave.

What kingdom principals are you LEARNING?

In what areas of your marital life are you applying them?

If you are serious about asking God for His kingdom to come into your life, this is an ENORMOUS marriage makeover.

When you ask him into your life, he does not come to speculate; He comes to take control.

Phil.2:3 “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourself.”

When you put your selfish ambitions in front of your marriage it will lead to a CHAOTIC lifestyle.

You can silence self -promotion in your marriage and turn to service with humility.

What is God teaching you as you pray “…thy kingdom come…?”

Where God is given loving obedience, and is king of your heart, that is where the kingdom of God is.

We need to realize that we are living in a kingdom of DARKNESS.

Our marriage takes a big toll because we are living in the kingdom of darkness.

How many ways are you under the Kingdom of darkness.

1.  You can be under the darkness of ignorance.

Eph.4:18 “…having their understanding darkened…”

2.  You can be under the darkness of pollution.

Rom.13:12 “…works of darkness…”

Pride in your marriage darkens the glory of God in your soul.

3.  You can be under the darkness of misery.

Ex.10:21 says the darkness of Egypt was so thick “…it might be felt…”

Who has the spiritual rule in your heart?

There are TWO kingdoms fighting for it.

Which kingdom do you resist when it is challenged.

Your own selfish ambitious promotion or the promotion of Gods kingdom?

Where is your heart?

The Kings place or yours?

NOTE:  Daily there is a new post to help your marriage succeed.

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2 Responses to “IS YOUR MARRIAGE A CHAOTIC LIFESTYLE?”

  1. Ann September 7, 2016 at 6:38 pm #

    Praise God for your ministry! I stopped reading your site “loveyourspouse.org” for maybe a year or longer and now I’m back on (just started yesterday 9/6). I realize that I’m able to go back into the archives of your website, which, I’m sure would be nice to do. It’s amazing to be back on reading & hearing the voice of the Lord through your ministry. Thank you for being bold, telling it like it is, cutting no corners, and backing up what you put out by the word of God.

    • nancy Salazar September 21, 2016 at 2:50 pm #

      Hi Ann! Thanks so much for your encouraging comment! So glad you have a heart to improve your marriage for God’s honor and glory. He will bless your life every day. Nothing goes unseen with God. He takes every opportunity to bless our lives. Have a blessed day!

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