SATURDAY QUESTION & ANSWER
Question #1. How can I protect my marriage from the things that would rob it of romance?
Answer #1. The bible suggests an appropriate name for romance robbers. After the bride of King Solomon described him in endearing poetic terms, her brothers said, “Catch us the foxes, the little foxes that spoil the vines, for our vines have tender grapes” (Song of Solomon 2:15) .
In those days, a wise gardener would protect his vineyard from foxes. The nocturnal bandits would sneak in during the dead of the night and eat the most tender parts of the vine, rendering them fruitless and useless.
The vineyard is like your marriage. The foxes are the things that sneak up on you and snatch the fruit of passion before it can bloom. And they can be anything: television, cell phone, household chores, hobbies—you name it. Even children can be foxes! The terrible thing is that these sly creatures are relentless. Drop your guard, and they’ll reduce the vineyard of your marriage to a barren, lifeless place where romance shrivels on the vine.
Don’t let it happen to you! Catch those little foxes and keep them out of your garden. If you don’t know what they are, then observe carefully. You’ll spot them if you look for them!
NOTE: This article is from the book Family Life and Marriage Bible by Dennis and Barbara Rainey.
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hi..
my wedding is around the corner and it seems thedevil is attacking day and night…it seems my wife doesn’t seem to realize it…
she blames me for the smallest of things..tries to black mail me using the word of God…like in one situation I had gone for a drink watching soccer she came to pick me up..whilst goin home she started telling me howGod is going to curse me bcoz I was drinking…I’m not a violent guy nor m’I talkertive I try to keep my cool…I told her not to judge me and all hell broke lose…
Hi Rashid! There are many suggestions that I can make but it won’t be instant. In Ephesians 5:33, the bible tells husbands to love their wives and wives to show respect. If you treat her with love, she will notice it. If you do your part, God will do his. He will show her how she is acting worse than you. God is true to His word. Continue to show her love, thats your part!!