NO ESCAPE CLAUSES IN MARRIAGE

16 Sep

 NO ESCAPE CLAUSES IN MARRIAGE

“Having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.  John 13:1

If your spouse is not in a place of receiving your love right now, the act of covenant keeping can be more daunting with each passing day.

But marriage is not a contract with convenient escape clauses and selfish exception wordings.

Marriage is a covenant intended to cut off all avenues of retreat or withdrawal.

There’s no going back.

There’s no opting out.

There’s nothing in the world that should sever what God has joined together.

Your love is based on a covenant.

And your covenant is based on the unchanging character of a covenant-keeping God.

The prophet Malachi wrote that one reason God withholds His blessing is that He hates divorce and is angered when husbands deal treacherously with their wives, breaking the covenant they made (Malachi 2:16).

Seeing marriage as a contract is like saying to your spouse, “I take you for me, and we’ll see if it works out.”

But realizing it as a covenant changes it around to say, “I give myself to you and commit to this marriage for life.”

Questions

Have you committed to your marriage for life?

Could you remind your spouse of your lifelong covenant with them?

Why not renew your love in a creative way?

NOTE:  This article is from the book, “The Love Dare – Day by Day authored by Kendrick

NOTE:  Daily there is a new post to help your marriage succeed.

3 Responses to “NO ESCAPE CLAUSES IN MARRIAGE”

  1. sally sanchez's avatar
    sally sanchez September 16, 2014 at 6:18 am #

    your right god is always right amen

  2. michelleb's avatar
    michelleb September 16, 2014 at 11:40 am #

    Sis. Nancy, I want to say thank you for writing this. As I have been reading your blogs since becoming engaged I found myself finding out more about what God calls wives to be. I forwarded this to my fiance so that we could have a dialogue about the covenant that we will be making soon.

    • nancysalazar's avatar
      nancysalazar September 20, 2014 at 3:19 pm #

      Hi Michelleb! Thanks so much for your excellent comment! I am so proud of you for working toward your marriage before you get married. This way you can make good and godly commitments to each other. Love it!! Love it!!

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