HE WILL FOLLOW YOU ANYWHERE
Genuine listening is one of the highest compliments that you can pay your spouse.
Psychologists, therapists and communication experts often discuss about the great benefits of being a “good listener.”
You can improve your marriage and have a spouse that enjoys to be around you by being a good listener.
Here are a few questions that you can ask yourself:
Do you interrupt your spouse when they are talking?
Do you show any signs of impatience while listening to your spouse talk?
Do you actually hear what they have said?
If you are an “active listener”, then you should practice focusing entirely on what your spouse is saying.
Is this possible?
Listening is a very hard skill to master.
Even communication therapists have trouble going home after a full day at work and have problems listening to their spouse.
Do you stop working and stop watching TV while your spouse is talking?
Do you stop reading and look at your spouse?
All these things are important to your spouse.
Do you fake like you are listening while you are really thinking about something else?
Here is a recipe to make your husband despise you:
** Never listen to him for long.
** Talk incessantly (without end) about yourself.
** If you want to talk while he is talking, don’t wait for him to finish, just bust right in and interrupt him in the middle of his sentence.
If listening to a spouse is so difficult for communication experts, what can you do?
The Holy Spirit can help you be an “active listener.”
This is what our God specializes in and He will let you hear your spouse’s heart even though it never came out of their mouth.
He can help you listen for your spouses unspoken fears and concerns.
God will show you when your spouse is reacting to a hurt or troubling mood.
You will learn how to listen without thinking about how you are going to respond.
God will show you the strengths and abilities of your spouse so you will know how much they will be able to handle.
You must be sensitive to the Holy Spirit who will show you impending trouble.
You serve a God who wants to give you great wisdom.
You can make your spouse feel so good and he will follow you anywhere.
Just give God the opportunity to help you.
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LOVE YOUR SPOUSE 
It has taken many years but I finally stopped trying to think of what I was going to say next and really listen to my husband. The timing was just right too because he has since stopped cutting me off mid-sentence. All we were doing was frustrating each other. Did you know there is also a mute button on the TV remote? My husband showed me how to use it!
Thank you Sister Nancy for all your input…
Hi L.Lopez! Thanks for your informative comment. I enjoyed it. Listening is the key to all communication. What a blessing that God is there to help us through and give us wisdom when we ask for it.